TY - BOOK AU - Markman,Howard AU - Stanley,Scott AU - Blumberg,Susan L. TI - Fighting for your marriage: positive steps for preventing divorce and preserving a lasting love SN - 0787957445 (pbk. : alk. paper) AV - HQ 734 M347.2001 PY - 2001/// CY - San Francisco PB - Jossey-Bass KW - Esposos - KW - Conducta de vida KW - Interpersonal relations KW - Relaciones interpersonales KW - Interpersonal communication KW - Comunicación interpersonal N1 - Incluye referencias bibliográficas (p. 357-364) e índice; Understanding the risks on the road to lasting love -- Four hallmarks of a great relationship: PREP in a nutshell. Destructive patterns : signs of danger ahead. Changing roles, changing rules : men and women in conflict -- Teaming up to handle conflict. When what you heard isn't what I said : understanding filters in communication. Talking safely without fighting : the speaker-listener technique. Controlling the home fires : handling issues and events well. New perspectives on problems and problem solving. Keeping conflict under control : ground rules for a great relationship -- Enjoying each other. Safe harbor : preserving and protecting friendship. Playing together : how to succeed in fun without really trying. Sense and sensuality : enhancing and protecting your sex life. Core beliefs and spiritual intimacy -- Staying the course. Why you can't always get what you want : unraveling the mysteries of expectations. Forgiveness : restoring hope. Sticking, stuck, or stopped : on the path to commitment. What to do now -- Some thoughts on domestic violence ER -